SB Relay and Norton Internet Security 2004

Hi ALl.Firstly, you will see my specs in my sig,so you know what I'm using,now then, I just can't seem to get sb relay 1.2 to interact with fs9 and sb host etc. I have even tried turning off my firewall,and security prog. even then I just don't seem to be able to get sb relay to show in the list of sessions to connect to in fs9. I can create a session etc, but not connect to sb relay, I have checked the FAQ and read the readme, has anyone else had this issue,or know of anything else to try.I can't be the only one,surely not.thanks in advanceSteve,