Request about smilies

I add smileys to my post very often. I have to click on a smiley above the box I am typing in and then a row of smileys appear underneath that same box. However, the smileys that appear aren't the regular and most used ones... I always have to click on Show all to get to the regular ones (the ones that are on top too in that window).Why aren't the regular smileys shown underneath the box I am typing in?And while I am at it: why isn't the regular ;) smiley on this forum? I have to type wink or other words to get ... ;) Er... I mean