Help! I need some help to troubleshoot this!

Hi to all i'm new on this, so far i got 2 commputers with win 7 "pc1-Server and pc2 client"On the server i got FSX X no the delux edition, the simconnect is a simconnect configuration tool, Sioc, Lekseecon, fspassengerx,wideview, widetraffic, FSUIP with wide FS disable, JFK addon and vatsim software like fsCopilot and fsinn.On the client FSx leveld, wideview, widetraffic, JFK addon and ASE.If i start to use ASE "on the client" with simmconnect it update my server without problem, but i loosecommunication withon the client from the server, also in the client computer the wideview and widetraffic option on fsx addon tab are not present, if i press start in the wideview configuration menu, the aircraft in the server takeoff verticaly and if i turn off wideview it drops to the ground.If i delete the simmconect.cfg file on my client in my document folder everything works fine, but ASE only update the client and not the server.I want to know if i'm doing something wrong! i did the configuration steps of wideview and ASE without good results,Please help!!