p3d multiplayer

i all

i probably know were this is going to go were am going to be told to go back to p3d suport bt anyway.

so am trying to join a p3d multiplayer sesion in my 737 in p3d but it when i conect  and press go when am in the lobby p3d says stight away do you want to go back to the lobby yes or no i hit yes it takes me back if i hit no the it gets stuck loaing player data the p3d shuts down cn any one help by the way we are not doing shared cockpit we jut trying to fly are separate aircraft on the same sever I know it work coz 3 of my other friends can do it

regards