It seems everytime I land at a major, or minor, airport, ATC ground control always sends me to some remote parking instead of the main terminals, even when there are plenty of gates available?Thanks for any help

Time to re-evaluate your underarm deodorant. :)

FS9 does not send user aircraft to parking/gates based on airline or aircraft (only AI get this 'service').FS sends the user to a space based on aircraft size. the space the user is sent must allow for an aircraft of equal or greater size than user's plane. the space must be empty.i never aski for diretions to parking/gate. i land, turn to ground, and then go to where i wish. this is a FS limitation i just 'live with'.--