Real World Radio Comms and ATC

Heard around the MHT airspace:"...then what's that airport off to my right?"...the person sitting next to me thinks he sees the lights.""...Young man, there's a lot more going on in this cockpit than just listening for your radio call!" (Pilot addressing tower controller)"...Don't you have something more direct? Don't you know what jet fuel costs these days?""...Do you see him!?""...You can't just go blowing through my airspace like that!"Then there are the stuck mike button cockpit conversations.