So basically, I just need to purchase a barebones PC, harvest this one minus the graphics card and start over. FSX has been a real treat. I wish I hated flight sim's, but unfortunately I am totally addicted. There just simply is no way around not dumping hundreds of dollars to get this sim to run well. It's frustrating that Xplane10 runs and looks better on this system... With Xplane, there are just not many addon dev's producing much for it although in the future I hear PMDG has shown interest. The other problem is Xplane is really not user friendly. I love how simplistic and quick I can set the parameters of my flights.
My Mobo is from HP which has lock OC'ing the CPU. This is why I must purchase a new mobo.
Anyways, I will sit tight, save, save and just when I think I have saved enough I will save some more. Sad part is, all my other games run extremely well.. Crysis 1 & 2 on highest settings gives me 30-40 fps. Perhaps this severe hardware hunger even 6 years later stems from poor coding. Thanks alot for the comments... I will set my course accordingly.