anyone having trouble with not being able tosee ai traffic at night because they dont have their lights on? I am also not getting taxi to gate information after landing from atc only to "park3" if someone has a fix for this please let me know

What AI traffic are you using? Regarding the taxi instructions, what aircraft are you flying and to what airport? Is the airport information modified?

using voxatc ai traffic and it doesnt matter what ap it happens everywhere and im not sure what you mean by airport info modified

Are you using an add-on that gives different AI traffic, like MyTraffic or Ultimate Traffic or World of AI? Modifed airport info means are the airports entirely default, as shipped with FSX or if you are running one of the AI programs they can change out airport information for ones with additional parking spaces/taxiways/runways, etc. Many downloads for enhanced airports also include modifications to the facilities directory.