So, as the title says, what is the best option for someone looking to fly the 787, but growing short on patience for the QW release? I know patience is a virtue, especially in the sim world, but I want it. I really do. Any thoughts or suggestions?

Well, maybe a couple years down the line PMDG will come out with a 787. That is my only hope for a good 787. There is the Aerosim 787 which you might be able to port into fsx (haven't really heard much about it though). Best of luck to you! I am waiting like you are basically for the aerosoft CRJ.