Taking it one step at a time, did you run the AI Traffic test from the client computer?
When I tested this, I copied the AI Traffic executable from the main FSX server to the client, into the SimConnectFiles subdirectory of ASNext, making sure the SimConnect.cfg was correct, and used port 500 (note: the SimConnect.XML file in this directory is only a sample and is meaningless on the client computer). If this works, there should not be any firewall issue. If it does not work, you could temporarily disable the firewall and antivirus on both computers and try again. If that doesn't work, the SimConnect file parameters likely do not match.
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