Can anyone tell me wher the throttle pedestall is hidden in the PMDG 737NGX is hidden.

I have found I think all the other panels, but not the throttle

Do you mean like a 2D pop up? There isn't one.

Where do you then find the throttles/reverse handles, flap handle, fuel cocks, speedbrake handle and the thing that is on the quadrant.

I find it hard to fly if you can't control this things, or do you have a hardware of this controls

Yeah I would guess that every regular poster here is using hardware.  If you want realism and most of us do then you will end up going that route 

best way  is  to fly  in vc  view  than you  able  to view  any   panel  you wish, or  get  ezdok  or  track ir